20March2025

South African Children and Pornography - a Guide for Professionals and Caregivers interacting with Children who are exposed to Pornography

This guide was created to help professionals and caregivers understand the destructive impact of pornography on children and what can be done to prevent and respond to it. It draws from the lived experiences of children, research, and frontline work and addresses an urgent issue that is too often overlooked.

Children in South Africa, like in many parts of the world, are being exposed to pornography earlier and more frequently than ever before. Sometimes this happens by accident, sometimes through peers, and sometimes through targeted grooming or exploitation. Either way, the effects on children’s development, relationships, and sense of self can be profound and long-lasting. This practical and detailed guide explores:

  • How children encounter pornography and the risks involved.
  • The emotional, behavioural, and developmental impact of early exposure.
  • The link between pornography and harmful sexual behaviours in children.
  • Prevention tools and strategies for caregivers, including age-appropriate conversations.
  • Early intervention, support plans, and how to respond when children disclose.
  • How professionals can map exposure, reduce harm, and work with caregivers effectively.

This is not about shaming children or blaming caregivers, it’s about equipping adults with the understanding and tools they need to guide children safely through a world that is increasingly shaped by online content. Whether you’re a parent, social worker, educator, therapist, or anyone working with children, this guide offers clear, compassionate, and evidence-informed support.